Valentine

How can Non-dual Enlightenment be reached?How exactly can that be done? Thanks for all the help

Hello there May I aks some thing here? I am under 20 years old,and as some article said,I should not do recapitulation,as I didn't go thorugh much I've read a lot about spiritualism,especially the non-dual traditions,with which I agree,but only on an intelectual level.Is it possble somehow to go to a being level?(Cessation of 'I') Besides the 'outside the maker traditon' questions,can I ask some things? How exactly do you stalk yourself,and become able to have 'any personality'?I've read about it,but it seems like it's observing 'What you are responsible and what you're not responsible for',together with observing yourself.May I ask for a simpler explanation? What I'm not fond of is visualizing,and it seems that it's somehow basic in this area.Is it possible to focus intent,and do recapitulation(if there would ever be need) without visualizing? Thanks you so much