Ancestral curse?

[Nakojo]

Greetings,

 

I've run into something I've not encountered before which I would very much like to resolve.

 

I've already countered hexes, curses and spells prior to this and consider myself an experienced shaman.

 

I'm now working with someone and after first thinking it was some self-inflicted 'negativity', the more I explore her energies the more certain I am it is an ancestral issue. Definitely within family lines.

 

This entity is quite persistent and will repeatedly try and lash out at me as well whenever I get too close.

This varies from physical attacks (I.e. tripping me over or moving an object into me), emotional and spiritual attacks in various shapes and sizes: it is very much determined not to let go of this woman.

 

I believe it to be her father, however, she and her husband inform me that he was (albeit it stern and old fashioned) a loving person.

 

Her physical health (cancer and ALS) does not permit me to take her into healing sessions which are physically demanding and also in hypnosis I keep on hitting the same barrier where the entity refuses to move, listen or reason.

 

Up to now, I've not managed to establish any lasting solution or relief, the spirit will at best back away for some time but usually within a matter of weeks after a session she is back at square one.

 

Q: has anyone encountered similar ancestral issues and if so how did you redeem it?

Any other suggestions are most welcome of course.

 

Love&laughter,

Nakojo

[Nakojo]

Note: I felt compelled to reach out as I'm staying with her (them) now for a few days and yesterday her brother arrived.

I immediately felt the entity desired his blood in a ritual but I refuse to venture down that road.

 

I've initially been trained in Africa as a Sangoma and have partaken in blood- and sex-rituals but have chosen not to entertain those options anymore. I since traveled other roads, more in line with the ancient Leiki methods.

 

My spirit guides seem unable or unwilling to intervene/help here and it feels like some test where I need to reinvent myself yet again.

[silenceseeker]

Hello Nakejo,

 

From what you described, I think my first step would be to identify where the 'hook' is in her from her father. What, in her, is it attached to and also, it can help to flip the situation and ask 'What does she get out of this?" Does she get to be helpless and have others take care of her? Does she get control or revenge on someone else by not being able to contribute due to being in this situation? It can help create clarity around where the agreement to be controlled by her ancestor/father lies. If you can identify that, then it's a matter of working with her to self-heal and release that need. If there is nothing for the entity to hook on to anymore, it will go away. You can also try trapping it by offering it 'bait' of what it wants and try to draw it away but if its personal as in an ancestral line, that probably won't work. But again, I think the first step is to clearly identify what it wants or gets from her and that will lead you to the solution.

 

Please let us know how you make out.

 

Lorrie

[Nakojo]

Thank you so much,

 

I've already experienced a shift.

 

You are (haha, I love how it works) spot on concerning her self image and reliance on her environment for help, too much so in my belief.

 

Earlier today I went shopping for white sage and felt drawn to frankincense. My 'normal' cleansing turned into a party: I was chanting in a more 'festive'/singing manner than I tend to and was dancing around her bedroom (where the influential entity is most prevalent) and for the first time, rather than being somewhat contented with the energy after, this time I was beaming, close to ecstatic.

 

I'll meditate on your suggestions, they are indeed connected to my initial thoughts (self affirmation) and I struggle conveying this to her.

She seems indeed to dwell in her sickness, great, great stuff.

 

I will indeed keep you posted on progress and should I get stuck, I know help is just a post away

 

One last question, if I may: I'm not quite sure what you refer to when you talk about 'hook'.

Is this her focal point, her inert intention without conscious awareness or is it a pure spiritual matter?

 

Love&laughter,

Nakojo

[silenceseeker]

Hi Nakojo,

 

Thanks for keeping us posted.

 

By hook, I mean basically, her unhealed wound. It's the unhealed part of her that causes her to accept this connection with the energy because in some way, she is substituting it for real healing from within. The energy, likewise, has a 'need' that is drawn to her pain, not a healthy mix. So, as she heals that wound, the opening that has been created that has attracted this and maybe other things will close.

 

Dream well,

 

Lorrie

[Nakojo]

Greetings friends,

 

Another small update on progression:

 

Rather than me trying to convey her fears or resentments I've asked her to make a lists of fears and resentments towards her illness and her father.

 

At midnight tomorrow (start of the new year) we'll burn those lists in a fire ritual which I feel is a good way to disempower her hooks.

 

I'll keep you posted as we continue working.

 

Again, many thanks for being.

 

I wish you all the best for the coming year,

 

Love&laughter,

Nakojo

[Nakojo]

Fwiw: should anyone feel inclined to contact me beyond the realms of this forum, rather than using LinkedIn, please mail,me @ courage2change@gmail.com